How to Understand others feelings and act accordingly?
In order to understand others feelings and act to the situation, all you need to do is first learn to empathize yourself.
Understanding your own feelings, making the right act at the right phase will make easier to do it for others. Through practice and a little approach you can easily understand the feelings and emotions of others. Thereby fixing the situation for your friends, relatives, neighbors or a human being.
When you can understand what someone is feeling, it becomes easier for you to interact with them or empathize them to their need.
You can empathize a person by two ways: * Verbal empathy * Non-verbal empathy
Verbal Empathy: This type is sometime quite difficult. At time, even though you have good feelings towards the other person and wanted to express your empathy to them, you need to first pick up words as symbols to express what you have conceptualized. The words you choose may or may not actually carry out your empathy feeling to that person. Sometimes, the listener may or may not reflect what you actually said and it further removed from what you actually thought.
Non-verbal empathy: This doesn't need words but just express your empathy through your feelings by the way the other person understands and feeling a bit relaxed in their present situation. When there was no words in our olden days, this was followed.
It can be done by, - Sitting by their side, looking into their eyes, showing concerned facial expression, Nodding head while appropriate, Comforting them whenever needed. There are seven basic facial expressions which are said to be Universal in expressing across all cultures. *Joy *Surprise *Contempt *Anger *Disgust *Sadness *Fear
So, first on analyzing your emotions, feelings and overcoming. You can surely recognize others emotions and feelings. Be their strength to overcome their hard times.
Why have we discussed this 'feel for others.' On this busy life, is it necessary to feel for others? understand them? and treat their concern? I personally think it is must. Since we are in a fast paced environment we sometimes lose that perspective of ours. By understanding people and helping them with their concerns in any way makes our own lives positive, happier and thereby healthier - this positiveness said here couldn't be explained but touched by our hearts -it can be in any ways.
Helping others sometimes gives us a kind of pride. To share a incident, when helped a person who slipped in a roadside, gave me an immense pride while a large crowd looked, gazed at me. Not only this, when you help someone you get a connection, a bond and hereby you can bridge with lot many people. When you care, someone definitely cares for you.
Someone here doesn't mean whom you don't know, it can be your kids. Whatever you do today, will be a set moral for them and will repay you tomorrow. Like the same, the famous author Charles Dickens says, "No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.”
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